So, how many of you have thought atleast once that you shouldn’t have married him/her? You should ‘ve accepted the other proposal and today you would have been living happily. And choosing him/her was the wrong decision u made? I bet your honest answer will be yes, because that’s life. After every fight with your partner and post the crying session or gloomy mood or cold war 😀 , we always think that if it was not him/her our life would be so and so ..Truth is every couple who got married are members of “The Not so perfect Couple” club 🙂
Do you really think that even if you had chosen the other person you will be living happily?? It’s a big NO. Irrespective of whom we are living with, our life will not be a bed of roses all the time, such is married life designed by the Almighty. Everyone has got their own positives and negatives. Nobody is perfect in this world, You might think that your friend / sister/ brother/ has got their perfect spouse. But why not me?? But that’s not true. Every couple has got problems in their life, some are smart enough to hide it in public and we assume that they are the perfect couple.
Stop comparing your spouse with others. They have got their on individuality, believe me custom made spouse can be really boring, its their indifference that makes our life lively. Having a perfect spouse means living a mechanical life, you will be happy with everything and eventually you will get bored. And who would want a boring life??? 😛
Sometimes we are so busy comparing our spouse with others that we often ignore the goodness in them. Just look closely, he/she is far better that the spouse at the next door 😀 . Just recall hasn’t he /she changed over the period of time for our sake (I meant in the good way).
We are not Gods to have a perfect life, so just forgive and forget, accept the way they are. Fight and argue but sort it out before you go to bed and for things which we cannot handle/control let it go. You can make your life far close to perfect, its up us to how we handle things. JUST LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY AND EXPECT LESS!!!!!