Admit it; you always love to fight with your siblings. It’s a rare scenario that you never had a disagreement with them. No matter how similar/different you are, you just love to fight. Honestly, I really cherish those moments now. We (me and my brother) thought that our parents loved him/me the more. I’m pretty sure many of us have experienced the same. I think we all had a presumption about the eldest, middle one and youngest one.
It isn’t necessary that you are always right. But when you are wrong try to admit it because younger ones are learning from you. We know you give loads of advice for their sake but let them live their life in their own way. They can learn from their mistakes, they don’t want to be over protected. It’s really irritating for them to see that parents always ask your opinion, but avoids theirs.
Don’t forget that you always get to use the new dress. You never had the horrible experience to use your elders dress, shoes etc. We pretty much enjoyed your weird old photographs when parents did their fashion experiments on you. 😛 I bet you have heard this comment often from your parents “you are older, so behave properly” 😀 . The best part of being an eldest kid is you are the most matured and independent one. You learn to forgive and forgets easily when it come to sibling rivalry. We younger ones will never admit, but honestly we all are really proud of you and want to be like you. After parents we feel like you are the important one in our life who has the authority to guide and lead us.
No you are not the unwanted child. You always have the assumption that you are often unnoticed and ignored, but that’s not true. You are the most ambitious one among the siblings, you know your aims and goals, where you want to be and how to achieve it. Just let go off the pity complex and doubtful mind. Your outspoken character is often misinterpreted, but we like your “ I don’t want to impress anyone” attitude. Actually the younger ones are more close to you, because you don’t try to interfere much. You should know that you are lucky to have an elder sibling to support you and younger sibling to understand you 🙂
The demanding, irresponsible, adamant, most pampered one in the family. Your carelessness and rebel attitude can bring lot of irritation to the family. Try not to be dependent on others, and be responsible. For heavens sake stop using “So what” often. We know that you can’t handle the comment “learn from you elders”, but parents unintentionally try to compare, You should also know that you are grandparents favorite. You always get the best gift among all whenever someone comes home.I’m one among them 😉
Am not stereotyping any, so if you have different opinion, feel free to comment on it. Don’t forget to mention which one are you 😉