Its been 2+ years since we got married. Today I was going through my old (personal) blogs and i came across something which made me feel good. The below image is a screen grab from my blog site. Check the blog post date and the date of wedding 🙂 Yes! I wrote a blog a day before my wedding. How many of you have written a blog the day before your wedding? Try it, it is good to read after some years like what i am doing now 😀
Today i thought i will just evaluate it 😀 . This post remains true for me still, I am living happily without much complications other than the regular “I AM” fights 😀 Well without those fights, I don’t feel I’m married.. 😛 . Lots of changes happened from the day I wrote the above post and this day, I changed my lifestyle, my priorities, habits and so on. What is the significance of all these? Well little decisions which include changes are necessary to strengthen your married life and for a happy living. 🙂 Remember by the word marriage, two souls are going to start a new life and for that both have sacrificed their priorities.
A Super Tip – To reduce friction in decision making, we came to an understanding. We divided decision making between us as critical and normal. All Critical decision making will be done by my sweet heart while all normal ones will be done by me 😀 For better understanding:
Normal Decisions –
What food to eat?
Whether to watch football or Ipl?
Whether to watch a movie or shop or do something else?
Drink whiskey or Drink beer?
Budget unlimited or till empty?
Critical Decisions 😉 –
The approach on international affairs.
India’s decision about what happened in some other country.
Price of ladies finger should increase or not.
Planning about what to wear for the next umpteen days….
I am sure you guys have got a clear idea about how it goes in our family 😉 😀 We believe in happiness & peace 😀